Dr. Alaric Arenander is a UCLA-trained neuroscientist and former UCLA faculty. He is recognized as a world-class speaker, specializing in the development of human potential.
He has spent decades sharing his expertise globally as an expert in the mechanics of the mind and consciousness.

Dr. Alaric's journey began at the altar of his brother's wedding, where he discovered the profound joy of uniting two hearts in marriage. Helping others celebrate their union became a great love leading Dr. Alaric to offer his services to couples wanting to get married.

While licensed for the entire state of Hawaii, Dr. Alaric's services are particularly focused on the island of Kauai.
​He often works alongside photography services to provide a seamless, high-end experience for couples looking to elope or have destination weddings.
​Dr. Alaric will bring a sense of profound meaning and elegance to your special day.

Dr. Alaric's background as a world-renowned lecturer allows him to command a room with a perfect blend of professionalism and engaging storytelling. ​By drawing on years of experience speaking on global stages, he brings a unique level of poise and eloquence to every ceremony.

He effortlessly balances the gravity of the occasion with a captivating presence, ensuring that each word resonates deeply with the couple and their guests. This rare combination of academic authority and heartfelt delivery makes his role as an officiant truly exceptional.

Your wedding can embody the Aloha Spirit by weaving local traditions, sacred chants, and the natural elements of Kauai into the ceremony's flow. To make the ceremony truly special and aligned with the "Laws of Nature," Dr. Alaric can focus on these traditional elements: ​The Oli (Chant): Start with an Oli Mahalo, a traditional Hawaiian chant expressing gratitude, honoring the environment, and acknowledging the spiritual connection between people and nature.

Lei Exchange: Use the Honi (sharing of breath) during the lei exchange to symbolize mthe connection of spirits and the law of Aloha. ​

Pū (Conch Shell): Sound the Pū in the four cardinal directions to call upon the elements—earth, air, fire, and water—acknowledging the divine presence in nature. ​

Salt and Water Blessing: Use a Koa wood bowl with sea salt and water to purify the couple's path, symbolizing a fresh start in harmony with the environment.

​Flower Petal Release: Have the couple release petals into the ocean or onto the earth, signifying the release of the past and the blooming of their new life together.

Kumu Keikilaniwahinealiiopuna "Puna" Kalama Dawson is a revered Kumu Hula, cultural practitioner, and internationally honored elder (Kupuna) residing on Kauaʻi. Descending from ancestral lineages of Hawaiian royalty, hula masters (kakahula), and seers (kahuna), she dedicates her life to sharing the pure essence of Aloha and preserving Hawaiian culture.

When conducting Wedding Blessings, Kumu Puna weaves ancient lineage with deep personal connection to help create a sacred space for couples.
Kumu Puna’s presence transforms a wedding from a standard ceremony into a profound, culturally rich experience that honors both the couple's beautiful life together and the sacred traditions of Hawaiʻi.

Dr. Alaric is a master of the conch shell, using precise breath control and lip tension to produce powerful, resonant ceremonial blasts. ​Through years of practice, he has perfected the art of the pū (conch), transforming a natural shell into a melodic instrument. His technique allows for sustained, clear tones that carry across long distances, signaling the beginning of sacred events or celebrations with profound clarity and strength.

The four corners blessing uses the Conch Shell to honor the cardinal directions, inviting divine mana (life energy, divine power) and ancestral protection.​The Key Elements of the Blessing ​In Hawaiian tradition, the blowing of the Pū (Conch Shell) is a sacred call. During a ceremony or blessing:

East (Hikina): Honors the rising sun and new beginnings.

West (Komohana): Acknowledges the setting sun and the transition of energy.

​North (Akau): Connects to the ancestors and the strength of the mountains.

South Hema): Represents the warmth of the sun and the abundance of the sea.The deep, resonant sound of the shell is believed to disperse negative energy and sanctify the space, making it a staple for weddings, land blessings, and significant cultural gatherings.

Shoko is the ultimate Hawaii wedding coordinator for Japanese couples.

Shoko grew up in Japan and speaks Japanese as her native language, making her the perfect coordinator, translator, and concierge for your destination wedding.

From organizing local vendors to assisting your guests, she ensures a beautiful, worry-free celebration in Hawaii.

Capture the unfiltered joy of your special day with candid photography that preserves every spontaneous, heartfelt, and laughter-filled moment.​

While your primary photographer handles the formal portraits, Dr. Cynthia Arenander focuses on the "in-between" moments—the glances, the giggles, and the genuine emotions that stage poses often miss. This unique addition ensures your wedding gallery tells the full, authentic story of your celebration from a fresh and artistic perspective.

Dr. Cynthia Arenander is a premier photographer bringing decades of professional expertise from her successful studios in Chico and Lake Tahoe. Her approach blends technical precision with an unmatched eye for the spontaneous.

​During your wedding, you both may wish to welcome the Unity of Lōkahi to guide your journey together in harmony.
Lokahi represents the harmony between the divine, the land, and the people. Lōkahi reminds us to live in perfect balance. As we intertwine our lives, we promise to nurture our unity, support each other’s growth, and create a peaceful home filled with shared harmony.
​What Dr. Alaric as the Officiant Could Say;
​"In Hawaii, the concept of Lōkahi represents a sacred, three-way harmony: a balance between ourselves, nature, and the spiritual world. [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] are choosing the Lōkahi symbol for their union to remind them that a strong marriage requires balance. Just as the three elements of Lōkahi support one another, this beautiful couple will lift each other up, and will always live together in perfect rhythm and unconditional love."

​Ideas for the Ceremony
​The Lōkahi Ritual: You can engrave the Lōkahi symbol onto a wooden unity bowl and pour two different sands or soils into it to symbolize your lives blending into one harmonious existence.
​Ring Inscription: Etch the word Lōkahi inside your wedding bands as a daily reminder of your commitment to balance and unity.
The Ring Blessing (Pīkai): The officiant dips a sacred tī leaf into a wooden bowl of ocean water (ʻāina) to bless the rings under the open sky (spiritual connection), uniting the couple (kānaka).
​The Lei Exchange: Symbolizing the interconnectedness of life, exchanging hand-woven plant material directly connects human devotion to the abundance of the land.
​Dr. Alaric can easily weave an Oli (chant) or explicit address into the script that explains the Lōkahi triangle, grounding the couple's commitment to each other in a shared responsibility (kuleana) to stay balanced with nature, community, and the spiritual world.